Greetings mortals

Some small musings for a Sunday.. 'Its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all' Was Tennyson right? I am struggling with this concept currently. I have both loved and lost, and in my current state of mind I am wishing I had never loved at all. The past few months have really made me take stock of a lot of things. How I show up for people, the ways I communicate (and the ways that I don't) my innate sense to want everyone to like me and 'approve' of me, m

Greetings traveller. (Ten points if you can guess the show - another five if you’re here because your own love life recently imploded — welcome to the club, refreshments are emotional growth and mild delusion) I didn’t want to write this until I’d had enough time and space to process it all — the heartbreak, the confusion, and the stark realisation that the future I thought was mine had shattered overnight. But time has a funny way of softening the edges, giving you perspecti

As I have had a LOT of experience with this subject and spent a lot of time working on and healing my own anxious attachment, I thought I...

I wrote this a couple of months back - only feel ready to post now- in the hope it helps others. The blog post I was really hoping I'd...

What a fucking journey. Honestly not one I thought I'd ever complete. But here we are. 4 years of crying (not consistently cause that...

I'm alive!!!!! Hello. Its been a good old while hasn't it? What can I say, life has been somewhat fucking mental lately. 2024 did not get...

Bonjour mon petites!!!! Well, well, well, it's been a minute hasn't it. I'm back, with some wonderful tales of life to regale you with,...

Trauma. What springs to mind when you hear that word? A car accident, sexual abuse, life changing injuries, death? Something really...

Quick post today. Well, its that time of the year again where our social media explodes with declarations of love, devotion and vomit...

I actually had a post ready to go on a completely different subject, but felt compelled to write this after discovering that quite a few...

This is a sad one laced with happiness so if you are feeling particularly maudlin today maybe give this a skip until you are feeling a...

How you all doing out there? Did you all survive the Christmas period unscathed? Or did you get arseholed, fall over a table and insult...

Quick rant. How hard is it to get a reply in a timely manner? Or actually get asked out on a date? Or not to be left hanging on a dating...

(Quick post whilst I am sat in the hospital waiting room ) I'm still dealing with something that to be honest I thought I'd be done with...

Well, I thought I was firmly back in the dating saddle, boots strapped on, sugar lumps in my pocket, whip at the ready (steady on now,...

No one tells you how much growth hurts. Like really fucking hurts. Its no wonder people shy away from it and would rather shove all their...

It was around July/August of last year that I learnt about attachment styles. I had never heard the term prior to this and was blissfully...

Single. Look up the definition in the oxford dictionary and this is what you will find - 1.only one; not one of several. "a single red...

Dating in the modern world. (Shoot me. ) I have been single now for around 8 years, I have dated guys on and off but nothing ever seemed...

I am writing this because I am MAD. Not stark raving straight jacket kind of mad, the burning fire, rage filled monster ready to rip...