Greetings mortals

I wrote this a couple of months back - only feel ready to post now- in the hope it helps others. The blog post I was really hoping I'd...

What a fucking journey. Honestly not one I thought I'd ever complete. But here we are. 4 years of crying (not consistently cause that...

I'm alive!!!!! Hello. Its been a good old while hasn't it? What can I say, life has been somewhat fucking mental lately. 2024 did not get...

Bonjour mon petites!!!! Well, well, well, it's been a minute hasn't it. I'm back, with some wonderful tales of life to regale you with,...

Trauma. What springs to mind when you hear that word? A car accident, sexual abuse, life changing injuries, death? Something really...

Quick post today. Well, its that time of the year again where our social media explodes with declarations of love, devotion and vomit...

I actually had a post ready to go on a completely different subject, but felt compelled to write this after discovering that quite a few...

This is a sad one laced with happiness so if you are feeling particularly maudlin today maybe give this a skip until you are feeling a...

How you all doing out there? Did you all survive the Christmas period unscathed? Or did you get arseholed, fall over a table and insult...

Quick rant. How hard is it to get a reply in a timely manner? Or actually get asked out on a date? Or not to be left hanging on a dating...

(Quick post whilst I am sat in the hospital waiting room ) I'm still dealing with something that to be honest I thought I'd be done with...

Well, I thought I was firmly back in the dating saddle, boots strapped on, sugar lumps in my pocket, whip at the ready (steady on now,...

No one tells you how much growth hurts. Like really fucking hurts. Its no wonder people shy away from it and would rather shove all their...

It was around July/August of last year that I learnt about attachment styles. I had never heard the term prior to this and was blissfully...

Single. Look up the definition in the oxford dictionary and this is what you will find - 1.only one; not one of several. "a single red...

Dating in the modern world. (Shoot me. ) I have been single now for around 8 years, I have dated guys on and off but nothing ever seemed...

I am writing this because I am MAD. Not stark raving straight jacket kind of mad, the burning fire, rage filled monster ready to rip...